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[23 Jul 2008|12:00am] |
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"The security I have now won't last forever, I know that, but hopefully by the time it's gone I won't need it anymore."
I pretty much hit the nail on the head back in '06.
I'm glad that I don't need it anymore. I'm okay.
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[22 Jul 2008|06:41pm] |
I have a question about a magic spot my boyfriend sometimes hits that sends me off the wall...
it's on the front wall of my vagina, but i know it's not my gspot. it's maybe threeish inches above that. my bf is a piano player and has those incredibly long piano fingers, which i'm guessing are about five inches or so. he can't tell what he's hitting when he fingers me, and if he plays with it for a bit before we have sex, kinda with a "come here" motion that works on the gspot too, every time he thrusts in i feel it, and it's like waves of pleasure everywhere. i'm wondering if it's maybe my cervix and i'm one of those rare females that finds it incredibly pleasurable to have it hit? if he rubs it it gets tender very quickly but it almost feels like an orgasm every time he touches it. i was literally just screaming last night when we were having sex after he had fingered me there. i had originally thought it might be my fornix but it's more of a spot than a penetration. i guess it doesn't matter where it is as long as he can find it and it feels good... i was just curious.
any ideas? thanks in advance!!
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| Tickles |
[22 Jul 2008|02:53pm] |
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Hey all, maybe you can help me.
My boyfriend is ridiculously ticklish! Its a nightmare!
Whenever i try and run my hands over him wen we're making out he jumps and it totally ruins the mood.
He likes me touching the back of his neck and hair etc but I feel like i want to hold his body aswell sometimes.
Any suggestions?
ClaireBear
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[22 Jul 2008|03:05pm] |
So I've been with this guy for about a month. He's actually been away for two weeks, but we've been talking on the phone every day. (And I'm visiting him soon - can't wait!)
Anyway, we had sex before he left. Usually I don't jump into things so quickly, but things heated up between us really quickly. He's an amazing kisser and knows exactly how to touch me and make me feel good. He has a great body (the best of any guy I've been with) and turned me on an insane amount. Besides our sexual chemistry, we also have a really strong emotional bond. We really clicked from the beginning and get along so well. He's such a great guy and I care for him so much. We discussed how neither of us had ever felt this strongly so quickly. We both agreed sex would be amazing between us. However, once we did have sex, it wasn't as good as I thought. It was still great and felt good, but not quite as amazing as I thought it would. I just wasn't as turned on as I felt like I should be. I don't know why. I care for him deeply and we have great sexual chemistry, so I don't know what's missing. I wasn't getting as wet as I felt like I should be. In my past experiences, I was usually very horny in the beginning and got wet really easily. I was beginning to get frustrated with myself because this time seems different. I was having trouble getting wet, but once we began having sex, it did feel really good. It's just like there is a missing piece. I was wondering if it's possible that I'm going through a time when my libido is just really low for some reason? I don't know much about libidos, except that mine is usually very active. If it is a problem with my libido, is there a way I can increase it? The final time we had sex I did get more turned on and wet, so could it possibly be that things may get better the more time goes on?
I'm stumped on this one, so if anyone could give me any advice, I'd really appreciate it.
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| Fresh Out of Ideas!!! |
[22 Jul 2008|12:51am] |
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Soooo...my bf and I have been together for well over 7 years. We have a wonderful sex life, but obviously we're always trying to think of ways to spice things up.
I have read a post from not too long ago about stand up sex. We enjoy this very much. He's 6'5 and I'm 5'2 so it's nice when he puts me up against the wall. Sometimes I feel like it's a bit of a struggle but he's big enough to hold me up. But is there any way that I could add to it other than just the kissing, hair pulling or biting? I feel like I should help out.
It seems like we're running out of places and ideas, which is odd because I have a very vivid imagination. Our sex drives are very strong so any time and any place is not an issue with us. I think we've done everything imaginable but it feels like there's other things to be discovered. To be more specific, we have done anything from deep passionate sex to wham bam thank you ma'am quickies just passing eachother on our way to work. We've done it in as public of a place that's possible without getting arrested, role play, bdsm..you name it!!
So I pretty much wanna hear ideas or stories, fantasies even, of things out of the ordinary..or things that I named. Anything that would make us both go "well..that's different!" but worth trying. It can be anything from any kind of stimulation (kissing, hand work, oral) to sex..just anything!!!
Thanks my sexy friends!!
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| Just wondering. |
[22 Jul 2008|01:44am] |
This is purely out of curiosity.
When you say you and your partner have "a lot" of sex, just how often are you talking?
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| Unsure about anal |
[21 Jul 2008|11:55pm] |
I've looked through the memories but not found an answer.
My SO asked earlier if we could try anal, I said no but I can't place a specific reason why. He's always said the arse is exit only and thats something I agree with, the idea of sticking his penis up my arse makes me tence up. I sometimes stimulate the area when constipated but thats about the limit.
Is it ok to just feel so weirded out by the whole thing.
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| Polyurethane Condoms + bonus lube question. |
[20 Jul 2008|04:07am] |
Hello. New member here, I've got a couple questions.
I am allergic to latex and was wondering if there are any "fancy" condoms out there that are latex-free? The only polyurethane condoms I can find are Durex Avanti and Trojan Supra. I'm really happy with them, but I keep finding myself staring at the kinds marked "ribbed for her pleasure" or the kinds that claim to create some kind of sensation, and I get bummed that I can't try any of them. I feel very limited when I only have 2 or 3 different ones I can try, meanwhile everyone else gets this great variety.
I also have dryness issues. What lubricant do you like the most? I need one that will last and endure. It's kind of a mood killer when we're in the middle of it and I have to stop the fuckbuddy to re-lube. The dryness sometimes results in being quite sore afterward (or during), and having to wait a few days to recover before we can go at it again. Needless to say, neither of us like that very much.
(Condom question cross posted to ![[info]](http://p-stat.livejournal.com/img/community.gif) birthcontrol)
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| Tense Legs |
[20 Jul 2008|08:50pm] |
I'm a frequent masturbator and ever since I started I've always had to flex my legs, mostly my calves and thighs, in order to orgasm. Most times as I get closer to my orgasm my legs end up straight out in front with my toes pointed and calves and thighs tighter than I think I could flex normally ha!
When I don't flex it doesn't seem to feel as intense. Does anyone else do this? Just curious. If you have any other tricks I'd love to hear. Thanks!
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| and i love you dumb and colorblind. |
[20 Jul 2008|11:30pm] |
i feel the need to write something here, but i'm not exactly sure what about. everything is going well in my life right now and by all intents and purposes i should be very happy. and i am. but something is bothering me and i'm not really sure what it is. i think i'm afraid that if i put it down into words it would make it real. whatever "it" happens to be. something just isn't right.
i feel like i'm walking on a tightrope or something, and if i sway a little bit everything will just fall. or like...i don't know. like things might just slip out of my hands if i look away for a second.
i think i might have already lost something, but i just don't know what it could be.
oh, god, i feel like i'm going to vomit.
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[20 Jul 2008|07:25pm] |
So. I'm.. Somewhat very sexually experienced, boyfriend is a virgin.
It's somewhat an odd situation as he's several years older than me, and easily the more dominant one in our relationship, sexually in particular.
I should mention about here that this IS a long-distance relationship. We're not actually physically sexually active, but still.
Can anybody help me with ways in which to try to get him to open up [talk, not become more open minded] about sex in general, without making it feel like I'm insulting him or kind of placing myself in charge?
>.< Goodness, such a dumb question.
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| Different positions |
[19 Jul 2008|09:59am] |
I found out the last few times I've had sex with my boyfriend that he gets really turned on when I'm on top. Personally I don't like that position yet because I have a hard time finding a comfortable rhythm and keeping said rhythm going long enough to get any joy out of it. Last Wednesday he wanted me to get on top again, however we both found out that as soon as we changed into that position for some reason I went from wet to dry. I seemed to be so dry it actually hurt. The confusing part is that when we changed back to missionary I was suddenly well-lubricated again. Almost instantly.
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I'm curious as to whether this is a mental issue. I'm not fond of being on top and I like being in the submissive position. It turns me on when he's in control. I just find it hard to believe that that would be the problem and how fast it causes me to dry up. Hopefully this problem will pass. I really get off on him being so turned on. I've also heard that most women find this to be one of the best positions for G-Spot stimulation, so, I want to keep giving it a go. :)
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| Pre-1930s Pornography |
[19 Jul 2008|04:23am] |
I think I've seen a few posts looking for early pornography, and I know it is hard to find so I thought that I would let you all know about a great site I stumbled across. It is called McFlynn's Erotic Emporium and it is a free site. It's got over 900 images right now.
http://mcflynns.com/
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| Libido issues: in my head, how to fix? |
[19 Jul 2008|01:09am] |
I'm sure this is common enough, but since it differs for each person so much I want to kind of share my issue and see if anyone has had similar, and how they got past it. I'm putting it under a cut in case it's lengthy.
( Continue. )
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| General questions about boobies |
[17 Jul 2008|09:29pm] |
What about a pair of breasts would make you find them unattractive? (I don't mean particularly like small or big or anything, I mean things other than size, although I suppose it might be a factor)
What would you consider, for lack of a better word, "saggy"?
And what makes a pair of breasts attractive to you?
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[17 Jul 2008|08:21pm] |
Alright, my FWB usually does most of the work by his own preference, but sometimes he requests me to be on top. I don't mind at all, it's cool; except I can't feel anything? I try and switch it up sometimes to see if I can get it to work but I still can hardly feel it. I frustrates me because this is usually a woman's favorite position.
Does anyone else have this issue?
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[17 Jul 2008|09:13pm] |
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So I have an issue when I have girl-on-top sex with my FWB. He's kind of bigger, and he's very wide in the hip area. I cannot for the life of me get comfortable on top. I can't straddle him, cause he's just that wide. I don't know what to do. Any suggestions?
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| okayyyyyyy striptease |
[17 Jul 2008|03:55pm] |
I think I saw one entry on this from like 2005 sooo I wanted to know if there was any new feedback and etc.
Soooo.... I decided that when I see my boyfriend (who I havn't seen since may and I'll be seeing in August) that I would like to kind of do a slow strip tease/lapdance just to spice things up and really get him turned on. I don't usualy do this kind of stuff so yeah.. haha I did a little test trial with a video and I sent it to him and he said that he really really enjoyed it but hated that I faded out right at the part where I was undressing (just cause I want to give him suspense haha im mean) but yeah the music I used was stripper from soho dolls or whatever.
Do you guys have any music tips?
What types of clothes should I wear that you think would be more fun to take off?
and okayy.. lapdance.. never given one... hahahah
i have really small boobs tho but a decent sized butt and my boyfriend loves that so I'm thinking a lapdance might be nice?
but yeah.. helppp?? thanks?
p.s i checked out the memories.. but yeah.. haha
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| sex while you're sick? |
[14 Jul 2008|08:31pm] |
My boyfriend and I have a bad habit of kissing while one of us is sick with a cold or something. Not the best idea in the world, I know. I now have either a really bad sore throat or pharyngitis (again) because of kissing the boy + walking around in a hot sun for hours on end. My throat was pretty mild Thursday night, but by Saturday night I had a full out fever. I'm still feeling pretty shitty.
edit: I had tonsillitis the entire time and he had his taken out when he was a little kid. I'm feeling much better now. (It's Thursday now.)
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